Saturday, June 27, 2009

Yet Another Culture Shock

In some ways these past 4 weeks have gone by extremely fast, while at other times it seems like it has been forever. I am now officially done working at the orphanage and will be starting my work at the hospital on Monday. Last night I went out to a beach bar and then a club with the doctor of the male ward. It is amazing how knowledgeable he is, and not just about science either. I am looking forward to spending my next month working there. There is a possibility of seeing my first surgery Tuesday. They are supposed to be reversing a colostomy on a patient.

I apologize for not posting in quite some time. I have been very busy with various things and trying to get ready for next week. I haven't said my official goodbye to the orphanage yet, I am trying to postpone it as much as possible. I am already going to return to the place today to try and get a game of soccer going with the children and get some last minute photos with them. There are plenty that I have yet to even introduce to you. Here are some pictures that I have taken the past few days. Nothing new really, just a few lovely faces to see again.

Jolly, and the typical face she makes as she points at things trying to explain what she wants:

Prince doing his homework, like the good student he is:

Melody:

Purity, being tickled:
This past week I took a visit to a village, close to where I work. I was shown around by a Kenyan friend I met the very first week I was here, at the beach. His name is Musa, and he is around the age of 16. He has always been trying to meet up with me and hang out, but every time he showed up to the orphanage, I was always gone. Finally, one morning he stopped by and I was there. I took him out to lunch, and we chatted for awhile. This is when he offered to take me to his village. I was not expecting to have such a culture shock this late in my journey! Once you think you have seen it all, something new comes along and opens your eyes even more. He lives in a home made completely from dirt, stone and wood. Sitting in his home, and noticing holes in his ceiling, dirt walls, and doors that are just a piece of wood that you move to the side, turned me into a complete state of awe. I could not believe the conditions he lives in every day of his life. This is going to sounds cliche, but it really does make you appreciate the more simple things in life, like having a legitimate roof over your head. I did not happen to take any pictures, perhaps I will on my return visit, but just imagine a homes made strictly of earths materials. It is just like you see on the television set at home.

Speaking of television, none of you realize how lucky you all are to be able to watch the things you are at home. I really miss having more than five channels and a wide variety of things to watch. Instead, here all I can choose from watching is "Tormento en el Paridisio" or "Mother-In-Law", a kenyan soap. I guess I should be thankful that my host family even has a TV set.

Enough about the things we should be thankful for. I would hope you all know most of that. If not, then this is a good reminder.

Last night I saw the tourist side of Mombasa. This is where all the Americans and English go to visit and say they have "experienced" Africa. They are completely wrong though. They have no clue what it is like and are oblivious to certain aspects that are kept hidden, away from their all-inclusive resort. Dont get me wrong, I guarantee I would be right alongside them in their expensive hotel room, looking over the ocean, with hot water and good food, had I went on this trip with my family (Sorry mom and dad, it is not your fault). This would have left me with the thought that I had seen it all, when in reality, I saw nothing. Kenya can be a place to get away to and lay in the sun, if you want it to be, but you might as well go to the caribbean instead, if this is what you want. The resort was incredible. It made me feel like I was in Hawaii again. It had the amazing infiniti pool overlooking the ocean on a cliff. Who could ask for more? With all this around you, why would anyone ever want to leave the hotel. No one goes on vacation wanting to see massive garbage dumps, homeless kids with glue bottles stuck under their noses, or dirt homes. That just isnt what comes to mind. All the tourists want is the picture perfect safari and the classic picture of a women carrying her African child on her back, that is all. These type of people then travel on home and go back to their air conditioned home, not realizing that they missed the heart of Africa. It is depressing to think about, and this is why I would like to be thought as being seperated from them. I am not here on vacation, I am here to work and gain experience. It is easy for most Kenyans to tell a volunteer apart from a tourist. We just are not the same and wont pay the prices that they pay. For example, I bought a carved giraffe a few days ago at the manufacturers woodshop. Tourists are not allowed to shop here, only Kenyans. I paid 500 Ksh for it, while a typical white American would pay several thousand shillings for the same giraffe on the streets. It feels good to be thought of as a Kenyan and not a tourist.

That felt good to get off my back. Well its time for lunch and a good old pick up game of soccer. Take all this in and if you are ever planning a trip to Africa, remember what I have said. This isnt meant to insult anyone, it just depends on what you are looking for and how far you are willing to dig in order to see the real Africa.

That is all for now.

12 comments:

  1. Once again, great pictures Kevin. I understand your point of view on working vs a vacation. You have been fortunate enough to see both sides of this and recognize that everything isn't what it appears to be. To really understand people and places you have to dig in and want to learn more. That's where the real glory of living life lies.

    Sad to see you leave the orphanage. I hope you have time to visit. I am interested to hear how the soccer match went.

    Love you Kev.

    Dad

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  2. Wonderful blog, Kevin. I can't get enough pictures of those adorable and happy children. Kevin you look terrific and so happy. This makes a Mom extremely proud of what her son has done so far!! God luck at the hospital next week. It makes me a little nervous on what you might be doing there. Please wear gloves, masks etc. to protect yourself. A Mom just has to say those things. As always, I love you very much and couldn't be prouder of you at this moment!!
    XOXO Mom

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  3. Mzungu,thank you for takeing the time to send such wonderful blogs.
    So very well written.
    Grandpa and I wish we could see what your eye's are seeing.
    You are seeing the heart of Africa, But we think at our age we would take the tourist route.
    You write so well you could write a book.
    Titled "Inside Africa" Kevin's Kenya.
    You will miss the little ones, we hope the hospital will be as rewarding.

    LOVE YOU MUCH.
    Grandma & Grandpa

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  4. Once again, a very well written blog. I just melt at the photos of the children. You will never be able to say "goodbye" to them. Those children have touched your heart and you have touched theirs.

    Keep sowing these seeds of friendship and peace.

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  5. Hey Kev, I noticed that the soccer ball in Melody's lap is one of the balls you brought from the Crystal Lake Soccer Club. It's great to see that they are being used again. Was that the game ball in your soccer match yesterday?

    Love Dad

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  6. Kevin, Good morning from Manteca. Your photos and descriptions can only be rated as A+.

    Stay well. I can well imagine what you meant about "tourist Kenya" and the real Kenya.

    Love always,

    Grandma and Grandpa P

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  7. The soccer ball in Melody's lap is one of our balls, and we did use it for the match we had on Saturday. Its a shame that the ball is already falling apart though. I may buy some new ones for them at the end of my trip.

    Thank you for all the compliments on my blog. I am glad that I can provide you with detailed information on what I am experiencing. Today I was introduced to the hospital. Although I saw a ton, I feel that tomorrow will be a better day to post. Especially since I dont have enough money for the amount of time it would take to write a detailed blog about the hospital. So stay tuned for tomorrow. I almost was about to help catheterize a patient who is in a coma! How insane is that! Students who are in medical school for years never even get to experience this type of stuff. Its crazy. I will explain it in detail tomorrow. Talk to you then!

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  8. Kevin, yes buy some more soccer balls and toys for the children in the orphanage if you have a place where you can buy those things at. Let me know and I can deposit more money in your account. Dad and I would love for you to do something like that for those adorable happy children!! Have you taken a video of the children at the orphanage yet? If not, please try to do so before you leave for home. You will always want to have that to look back on for the wonderful memories.
    Much love to you always,
    Mom

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  9. Kevin,

    Jambo...I am a friend of your Dad's and I just returned from Nairobi in April. I had a great time and saw a lot, I did a Bodyguard driving schol and a week in the Mara on safari. Your Dad is very proud of you for your work. E-mail if there is anything I can share about Africa with you. dhilbish@gmail.com

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  10. I have taken video of the children very briefly. I will try and get more before I leave for sure. Ill let you know about buying toys/balls.

    I have seen all your pictures Dave. They were incredible. You definitely captured the Mara better than I could. It will be nice to see your pictures again when I return to remind me of how amazing it was. Thanks for your e-mail. If I have any questions, I wont hesitate to send you one.

    Take care

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  11. Kevin,
    Wonderful pictures and amazing insights for someone as young as you. Whenever we sailed to small islands that tourists don't frequent it was always a greater experience to hang out with the locals. Through your eyes we can imagine what the local experience is like versus the tourist experience in Africa. Planning a trip to SF in August. I look forward to seeing and hearing more about your experience in person. Keep up the great work. Don't get too detailed about hospital experiences or I won't be able to read. Weak stomach!! Ha

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  12. Haha alright i will try my best to keep the stories light, but some of them have to be told...ill make a warning every time I may say something more detailed. Cant wait to see you. that will be nice!

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